Weddings are filled with choices. How do we arrange the flowers? Which appetizer do you like? Where do you want the quest book to be placed? They can all be overwhelming. There are always so many options.
On top of the bombardment of options there are, add a person who can't make up there mind. AKA. Mr. Camrah. Just picking out dinner is one of the most challenging things for both of us. (Falling just below getting out of bed to go to work. Ugh!) Mr. Camrah also has a hard time deciding on things besides just food. For his graduation gift, FMIL had to text me to find out what he wanted, and I had to reply with, "he still hadn't made up his mind". This indecision is one of the major reasons an important choice about our wedding still hasn't been made.
Early on in the planning of our wedding (January), I decided that Mr. Camrah would choice the number of attendants we would be having. I know who I will choice to be a bridesmaid depending on the number, but Mr. Camrah still hasn't decided. He currently has three groomsmen and is thinking about a fourth.
I'm worried about waiting too much longer. I want to give the bridesmaids ample time for us to pick out dresses. The only person who I have talked to about being in the wedding is my sister/MOH (and I pretty sure shes known she was going to be in my wedding since I was born).
New plan: time limit. He has to decide by the eight month mark. Which is a little over a week away. We will be sticking with three (just to make life easier) if he has not made his choice by then.
I don't want anyone getting stressed because we didn't let them know early enough. I mean my bridesmaids have dresses to pick out.
Was there one decision that went with out resolution for a while about your wedding?
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